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      <image:caption>Welcome to my space on the internet where I share strategies for foster and adoptive parents. I’m the mother of three children. My youngest is my hidden pearl. A pearl because her soul radiates beauty. Hidden because her soul hides behind hard shells that were created as a result of early childhood trauma. I’m forever striving to crack those shells. Little by little, from one strategy to another, I’m finding success. If you’re feeling discouraged as an adoptive or foster parent, take heart. There’s hope. Follow my journey for ideas, inspiration, and victory.</image:caption>
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